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A CHILD'S REACTION TO PUNISHMENT
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A CHILD'S REACTION TO REWARDING
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| Lying. |
Expecting and demanding that others make him happy. |
| Blaming. |
Looking for the next reward. |
| Irresponsibility. |
Lack of concern for others. |
| Fear. |
Focus on pleasing authority. |
| Confusion. |
An attitude of "what’s in it for me?" |
| Becoming compliant or resisting authority figures. |
Diminishing quality of work due to focus on the reward. |
| Low self-esteem. |
Choosing easy tasks to get a reward. |
| Lack of trust. |
Taking fewer risks. |
| Desire for revenge. |
Less creativity. |
| Anger displaced on younger siblings. |
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| Being un-centered. |
A CHILD'S REACTION TO REDIRECTION
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| Sneakiness. |
Peacefulness and calm. |
| Hurting themselves. |
Internal control. |
| Externally controlled. |
Self-motivation. |
| Learning what to think. |
Learning from experience. |
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Making responsible decisions. |
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A CHILD'S REACTION TO PERMISSIVENESS
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Learning how to think. |
| Freedom without order. |
Looking for happiness within. |
| Lack of respect. |
Self-direction. |
| Lack of self-confidence. |
Respect for self and others. |
| Lack of concern for others. |
Consideration. |
| Not learning the value of their contribution.. |
Assertiveness. |
| Lack of self-discipline and focus. |
Internalized values. |
| Questioning whether or not they are loved. |
Desire to cooperate. |
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Desire to do what is best for the situation. |
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Trusts. |
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High self-esteem. |
